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Eloped - A new trend in our marriages, finally or what?

  • Writer: Tuk On Me Lisbon Tuk Tours
    Tuk On Me Lisbon Tuk Tours
  • May 28
  • 3 min read


Do you hear about a married couple running away without telling anyone or getting married secretly? It may seem that marriages are the only way to get married, but fleeing is not an incommon practice or taboo in the past few days. In fact, some homes choose romantic places or interesting destinations like Lisbon or Sintra to escape. Isso you can return to celebrating much more pleasantly.


Since the technical definition of "eloped" is "fugindo", it is a slightly more subtle definition in the marriage jargão. "Eloped" means to marry without telling anyone. In modern times, fleeing (eloped) does not necessarily mean fleeing, and some households choose to flee and inform their families before the ceremony (embora nem always invite you to participate).


Reasons to flee

There are many reasons why you get married and decide to run away. Two of the most common are because their countries or families do not approve of a union. Normally, weddings are an occasion when the family gets together. If genuine approval has not been received by two countries from both sides of the family, a marriage may decide not to marry and flee instead.


Another possible reason is that the house may indicate that you do not want to spend money on a traditional wedding. Weddings can be stressful and expensive to plan. Many of us can choose to run away to reduce stress. Other households may decide that they prefer to save money for the future instead of spending it on a luxurious home.


Other households can escape to a destination, then return home and host a small reception that included family and friends to celebrate their union. You may find that you have exchanged vows in front of your guests, even though they are not legally married because they are fleeing and holding a private ceremony first.


And a last, but also very valid reason, is because we simply want to hold a wedding ceremony really for two.

Giving up a big traditional wedding and running away does not necessarily mean completely celebrating a ceremony or reception to commemorate the occasion. Sometimes, you get married that we simply want a more intimate and quiet wedding with a limited number of guests.


Personal decision

Every house has its own reasons and personal definitions of what it means to run away. While some seek an intimate beach environment on a tropical island, others prefer a quick marriage in court. There is no right or wrong answer to escape and it should not be seen in a negative way. The most important thing is that the house follows its own wishes and any path that makes you happy. For many, the idea of a traditional wedding is simply not an option and they prefer to do their own thing.


Making plans

Even if you get married, you will choose to run away and make some plans to ensure that your ceremony is perfect and legal. Depending on the location, the house must contact the local entities to understand the requirements of the marriage license.

The family will also probably need your birth certificates and official identification; Therefore, if you are planning an escape from your destination, check local laws before leaving for your trip.


If you are the chosen destination for your escape (eloped) for the romantic regions of Lisbon, Sintra or Cascais, you can count on Leav Tourism to help organize all the details.


 
 
 

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